I had yet another pep talk with a good guy friend over the weekend. Yet another human who I thought was a man turned out to be nothing more than a horny boy. My guy friend used the phrase: "I always say anxious boys miss dessert". Not only did that phrase change my whole frame of mind in a single second, it empowered me like I have never felt before.
4 little words that suddenly have come to mean so much to me. I love them. I heart them. They are so true so very true.
I don't know why I am able to walk away from this idiot without any mind fuckery. Maybe I have reached my threshold of being ok with waiting it out and refusing to settle. Like Miss Drew Barrymore said over the summer in an Elle article "I'm single at 35 because I choose to not be with the wrong person for me". Me too, me too Drew.
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